處世錦曩系列之121 人性的真相:嫌你窮，怕你富

edward

知道人性的真相，驚出一身冷汗

恨你有，笑你無，嫌你窮，怕你富




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BSWcVCBQUEA

edward

1# edward
英文字幕記錄


Living in this world
There are only two things that cannot be looked at directly
The first is the sun,because it's too dazzling

The second is human nature, because it's too unpredictable



[size=1.2]Today we are going to do a dissection
[size=1.2]How complex is human nature?
[size=1.2]Said heaven is beautiful
[size=1.2]Just no one goes
[size=1.2]Saying money is a sin
[size=1.2]Everyone is trying their best to catch it
[size=1.2]Saying that beautiful women are a disaster
[size=1.2]Want them all
[size=1.2]It’s said that it’s cold at high places
[size=1.2]Everyone is crawling, this is human nature
[size=1.2]What is human nature
[size=1.2]I hate that you laugh but you don’t
[size=1.2]I think you're poor and I'm afraid you're rich
[size=1.2]As a lawyer, I hope you will be accused
[size=1.2]Doctors hope you get sick
[size=1.2]The mechanic hopes your car breaks down
[size=1.2]only thieves
[size=1.2]They want you to be prosperous and wealthy forever
[size=1.2]Meeting people for the first time
[size=1.2]Start looking at the other person’s identity and worth
[size=1.2]Then choose whether to kneel in front of the other party
[size=1.2]Or let the other party kneel for you?
[size=1.2]when you fail
[size=1.2]There is always a group of people who care about you
[size=1.2]ask you what happened
[size=1.2]And then leave with satisfaction
[size=1.2]Most people will wish you well
[size=1.2]But the prerequisite is that I don’t want you to live a better life than him.
[size=1.2]As long as it doesn't harm your interests
[size=1.2]You don’t need to refute what others say
[size=1.2]As long as it's not a personal attack on you
[size=1.2]You don’t need to care about other people’s opinions
[size=1.2]The more you are afraid
[size=1.2]The more people bully you
[size=1.2]You are not afraid of anything anymore
[size=1.2]On the contrary, no one dares to bully you
[size=1.2]You are so nice
[size=1.2]Everyone is here to take advantage of you
[size=1.2]Be more aggressive
[size=1.2]On the contrary, I might come to please you
[size=1.2]Since ancient times, true love cannot be retained
[size=1.2]Only tricks can win people's hearts
[size=1.2]Slowly you will find
[size=1.2]A good heart can never be as good as a good mouth
[size=1.2]The relationship between people is like knitting a sweater
[size=1.2]Build it one stitch at a time
[size=1.2]careful and long
[size=1.2]When removing, just pull it gently
[size=1.2]Never complain casually
[size=1.2]Because some people will comfort you on the surface
[size=1.2]But behind the scenes, your pain will be used as a basis for discussion
[size=1.2]Your friends may wish you well
[size=1.2]But the prerequisite is
[size=1.2]I don’t want you to have a better life than him
[size=1.2]Of course one's own failure
[size=1.2]It’s scary, but my friend’s success is even more heart-wrenching.
[size=1.2]Beggars don't envy millionaires
[size=1.2]But he will definitely be jealous of the beggar who earns more
[size=1.2]Man allows a stranger to get rich
[size=1.2]But he can't tolerate the promotion of someone around him
[size=1.2]The greatest pain in life
[size=1.2]It’s just watching the people around you become prosperous.
[size=1.2]We would rather see outsiders succeed
[size=1.2]I just can’t stand the success of people around me
[size=1.2]People who are far away from you become prosperous
[size=1.2]We are envious
[size=1.2]People close to you are prosperous
[size=1.2]We hate
[size=1.2]A bit stronger than myself
[size=1.2]we worship
[size=1.2]A little stronger than myself
[size=1.2]we are jealous
[size=1.2]People always praise the smell of meat when eating it
[size=1.2]When washing dishes, scolding them for being dirty
[size=1.2]When people are hungry, they will choose food they don’t like
[size=1.2]When people are lonely, they will choose someone they don’t love
[size=1.2]The so-called hunger does not choose food
[size=1.2]No choice of clothes in the cold
[size=1.2]panicking
[size=1.2]Poor people don’t choose wives
[size=1.2]That's the truth
[size=1.2]Why have beauties been so miserable since ancient times?
[size=1.2]Because no one cares how long ugly people live
[size=1.2]If you give him one dollar a day
[size=1.2]As long as I don't give it for a day
[size=1.2]He will hate you
[size=1.2]If you give him a slap every day
[size=1.2]As long as you don't fight for a day
[size=1.2]He will kneel down and thank you
[size=1.2]Kind people always feel like rejecting others
[size=1.2]As if I had done something wrong
[size=1.2]For some people, you give them 7 points
[size=1.2]Instead, he feels that you still owe him three points.
[size=1.2]Couples can't get divorced
[size=1.2]Can't see the true nature
[size=1.2]Sisters don’t touch money
[size=1.2]Can't see the face
[size=1.2]Parents are not at the hospital bed
[size=1.2]Can't see filial piety
[size=1.2]Friends don’t touch benefits
[size=1.2]Can't see humanity
[size=1.2]seemingly strong parents
[size=1.2]There is a high probability of raising cowardly and unconfident children.
[size=1.2]On the contrary, those parents who are peaceful and quiet
[size=1.2]Often can educate children with strong hearts
[size=1.2]Introverted and thoughtful people tend to be more affectionate
[size=1.2]Once you decide, stick to it
[size=1.2]outgoing person
[size=1.2]Although it’s easy to get along with people
[size=1.2]But the heart is often cold
[size=1.2]Often the first to retreat at critical moments
[size=1.2]The worse a person is to his family, the more
[size=1.2]It's about saving face outside.
[size=1.2]The more I like to please people outside,
[size=1.2]The worse it is for the family
[size=1.2]In fact, this kind of person not only has low self-esteem
[size=1.2]And cowardly
[size=1.2]Otherwise, I wouldn’t come home every time
[size=1.2]Just get angry in the nest
[size=1.2]A psychopath is extremely easy to identify
[size=1.2]But a group of mentally ill people are hard to detect
[size=1.2]And the first person to discover and point it out
[size=1.2]usually considered mentally ill
[size=1.2]Most people don’t recognize their own problems
[size=1.2]But he has a preaching mouth
[size=1.2]people despise each other
[size=1.2]flatter each other
[size=1.2]People each hope that they are higher than others
[size=1.2]And each of them crouched in front of others
[size=1.2]Modern people live under illusion
[size=1.2]He thinks he knows what he wants
[size=1.2]In fact
[size=1.2]What he wants is what others want him to want
[size=1.2]Most people don't really want freedom
[size=1.2]Because freedom includes responsibility
[size=1.2]And most people are afraid of responsibility
[size=1.2]People can defend themselves against attacks from others
[size=1.2]But I can’t do anything to praise others
[size=1.2]So please remember
[size=1.2]You must learn to praise others
[size=1.2]He leaves you without enemies
[size=1.2]The so-called experience of high emotional intelligence
[size=1.2]It's just you who told lies
[size=1.2]The other party knows it well
[size=1.2]but gladly accept
[size=1.2]The one with low emotional intelligence means you obviously told the truth.
[size=1.2]You have to apologize to the other party
[size=1.2]The greatest ugliness of human nature
[size=1.2]It's because he obviously has selfish motives
[size=1.2]But demanding generosity from others
[size=1.2]Always want others to be saints
[size=1.2]And secretly act like a villain
[size=1.2]Do you think those people you have helped
[size=1.2]At least when you're in trouble
[size=1.2]show compassion
[size=1.2]But often these people
[size=1.2]He's the one who's most likely to fall into trouble.
[size=1.2]truth teller
[size=1.2]Always be careful like a villain
[size=1.2]And those who tell lies
[size=1.2]Always speak righteously like a gentleman
[size=1.2]When you have no money, do good things first
[size=1.2]When you have money, you have to do things well
[size=1.2]Unfortunately, most people are just the opposite
[size=1.2]Don’t treat yourself as a human being when you have no money
[size=1.2]Don’t take things seriously when you have money
[size=1.2]If one day
[size=1.2]You feel like those close to you are just pretending
[size=1.2]don't worry
[size=1.2]do not be afraid
[size=1.2]This shows that you have matured
[size=1.2]no fuss
[size=1.2]You made friends when you were in trouble
[size=1.2]When you are proud, your friends will meet you
[size=1.2]Great joy and great sorrow
[size=1.2]see yourself clearly
[size=1.2]See friends clearly through ups and downs
[size=1.2]Many weak people are also evil people
[size=1.2]But because it is weak
[size=1.2]His evil talents have no destructive power
[size=1.2]But once such a person turns over
[size=1.2]Often they will intensify their mischief.
[size=1.2]Many honest people are also bad people
[size=1.2]But because I have never seen the world
[size=1.2]They live like cowards
[size=1.2]But once they gain momentum
[size=1.2]Immediately became unscrupulous and greedy
[size=1.2]Many bosses tell their employees to do their jobs well.
[size=1.2]We are doing a big thing that is beneficial to society
[size=1.2]Wait until our company makes money
[size=1.2]I will never forget you
[size=1.2]The reality is often like this
[size=1.2]Either the boss keeps doing what he does or he collapses
[size=1.2]Either it will become bigger in the future
[size=1.2]Then bring the people around you who share the same joys and sorrows
[size=1.2]All kicked away
[size=1.2]Many boys tell girls this
[size=1.2]I really like you
[size=1.2]Although I have no money now
[size=1.2]But I will definitely work hard to make money
[size=1.2]Wait until I get rich in the future
[size=1.2]I will definitely compensate you twice as much
[size=1.2]The reality is often like this
[size=1.2]Boys are either simply incapable of doing big things
[size=1.2]Or wait until you get rich later
[size=1.2]He abandoned the wretched wife beside him
[size=1.2]therefore
[size=1.2]Those who like to talk about morality and feelings
[size=1.2]I often use this standard to bless others.
[size=1.2]And then quietly realize their own interests
[size=1.2]Discuss money with people
[size=1.2]People tend to be trained into wolves
[size=1.2]And talking about feelings with people
[size=1.2]It often turns people into white-eyed wolves
[size=1.2]Because the relationship is maintained by money
[size=1.2]If it can be maintained forever
[size=1.2]Feelings often develop in the end
[size=1.2]And the relationship that was maintained by emotion from the beginning
[size=1.2]It is often easy to break up due to interests
[size=1.2]In the end, they just hate each other
[size=1.2]It is always right to praise others
[size=1.2]Especially when you don't want to say anything
[size=1.2]Or when you don’t know something
[size=1.2]Just keep praising the other person.
[size=1.2]This will not cause unnecessary trouble
[size=1.2]Playing dumb is always right
[size=1.2]Especially when you see through everything
[size=1.2]Better to pretend to be stupid
[size=1.2]The more you see, the more you need to pretend
[size=1.2]If you can’t see through it, just wait and see
[size=1.2]Can money make people bad?
[size=1.2]In fact, money does not make people bad
[size=1.2]It doesn't make people better
[size=1.2]He can only expose his true self to others
[size=1.2]Money is like power
[size=1.2]It is the amplifier of human nature
[size=1.2]They will magnify the appearance of the person many times
[size=1.2]Let people live closer to their truest selves
[size=1.2]when people are poor
[size=1.2]No chance to release his arrogance and shamelessness
[size=1.2]Nor can I show my generosity and kindness
[size=1.2]When a person has money
[size=1.2]Vanity, greed, arrogance, selfishness and lust will all be magnified
[size=1.2]corresponding
[size=1.2]Human generosity, kindness, bravery, kindness, filial piety and dedication
[size=1.2]It will also be enlarged
[size=1.2]Money makes noble people nobler
[size=1.2]Despicable people are even more despicable
[size=1.2]Money makes profound people deeper
[size=1.2]Shallow people are even shallower
[size=1.2]The best way to comfort someone is to tell him
[size=1.2]Actually I'm worse than you
[size=1.2]Don’t keep talking about big things
[size=1.2]This will only make the other person feel that they are really miserable
[size=1.2]this is human nature
[size=1.2]i can be a failure
[size=1.2]But I can't admit failure
[size=1.2]What I want to see is that everyone is actually a failure
[size=1.2]Only in this way will you feel at ease
[size=1.2]It turns out there are so many people in the world who are worse off than me
[size=1.2]What else can I be sad about?
[size=1.2]I should be secretly glad
[size=1.2]In short
[size=1.2]Not every loser deserves pity and sympathy
[size=1.2]Not every loser is willing to face the truth
[size=1.2]They would rather deceive themselves
[size=1.2]Live in self-comfort
[size=1.2]happiness of most people
[size=1.2]It’s all because they live a better life than the people around them
[size=1.2]It comes from a sense of superiority
[size=1.2]rather than self
[size=1.2]The result of recognition
[size=1.2]The pain of most people
[size=1.2]It’s not because I’m mediocre and poor that I’m suffering
[size=1.2]It’s about seeing the people around you who are more successful than yourself
[size=1.2]and feel extremely painful
[size=1.2]No matter how rich and healthy a person is
[size=1.2]If all the friends around him are better off than him
[size=1.2]His happiness will not be too high either
[size=1.2]And no matter how mediocre a person is
[size=1.2]If all the friends around him are far inferior to him
[size=1.2]His happiness will not be too low either
[size=1.2]There is a self-protection mechanism for dignity in human nature
[size=1.2]Whenever you come into contact with the outside world
[size=1.2]After those outstanding achievements beyond my expectation
[size=1.2]we will feel panicked and confused
[size=1.2]The brain collects all clues
[size=1.2]To prove that other people's success is a fluke
[size=1.2]If you have the same objective conditions
[size=1.2]will only be better than them
[size=1.2]Just like when I was in school
[size=1.2]We love to discuss
[size=1.2]People who study well are nerds
[size=1.2]Pretty girls often have no brains
[size=1.2]When I grow up
[size=1.2]It turns into a colleague getting promoted
[size=1.2]It's because I know how to flatter the leader
[size=1.2]A classmate started a business successfully
[size=1.2]Because my family gave me huge financial support
[size=1.2]To avoid the consequences of people around you getting better
[size=1.2]We all like to bring down people who get better
[size=1.2]trampled underfoot
[size=1.2]To trample on their halo
[size=1.2]In order to obtain psychological satisfaction
[size=1.2]This feeling is even happier than achieving something
[size=1.2]We always like to think of those outstanding and successful people
[size=1.2]Think about the most despicable places
[size=1.2]Only then can you feel at ease
[size=1.2]It seems like this is the only thing
[size=1.2]Only then can you prove that your vulgarity is not isolated
[size=1.2]And for their own failure
[size=1.2]Find a reason to live at the bottom
[size=1.2]People would rather prove the mediocrity of others
[size=1.2]Nor willing to face my own mediocrity
[size=1.2]This is the pattern of most people
[size=1.2]This is also a disguised admission of one's own incompetence.
[size=1.2]So Wang Xiaobo talks about all human sufferings
[size=1.2]Essentially, it's all anger at one's own incompetence
[size=1.2]The more sensible people
[size=1.2]The more no one feels sorry for you, the more
[size=1.2]People with good tempers are more likely to be bullied
[size=1.2]The more empathetic people are, the more likely they are to be wronged
[size=1.2]On the contrary, they are people who cry, refuse, and fall out.
[size=1.2]Usually the more no one dares to provoke
[size=1.2]The more arrogant and unreasonable you are
[size=1.2]Everyone comes to please you instead
[size=1.2]Boys with scumbag characteristics
[size=1.2]Looks romantic and philanthropic
[size=1.2]But there is often a lack of love in the heart
[size=1.2]Girls with sucking characteristics
[size=1.2]Most of them have been hurt by their original families
[size=1.2]Extremely lacking in love
[size=1.2]So much so that the scumbag throws some bait at will
[size=1.2]You can capture them
[size=1.2]Human eyes are parallel
[size=1.2]But don’t treat people equally
[size=1.2]Human ears grow on both sides
[size=1.2]But I always like to listen to one side of the story
[size=1.2]Everyone individually is rational and intelligent
[size=1.2]But as long as they get together
[size=1.2]will become blind and irrational
[size=1.2]become a rabble
[size=1.2]Produce various herding effects
[size=1.2]Look at me here
[size=1.2]I think in your society
[size=1.2]The so-called correctness is nothing more than being similar to others
[size=1.2]Behind any behavior that puts one over others
[size=1.2]Everyone has an inferiority complex that needs to be hidden.
[size=1.2]Giving in will basically lead to an increase in the odds.
[size=1.2]Don't imagine that you can get any respect or heartache in exchange for it
[size=1.2]People have thousands of faces
[size=1.2]The heart is ever-changing
[size=1.2]Don’t tell everything you know
[size=1.2]Don’t believe everything you hear
[size=1.2]In this cold society
[size=1.2]You never know who's playing who
[size=1.2]What's so scary about ghosts?
[size=1.2]Go and see people's hearts
[size=1.2]Surrounded by actors
[size=1.2]Everyone has an ever-changing face
[size=1.2]Today you share your heart and soul with others
[size=1.2]I will definitely regret it tomorrow and break my heart.
[size=1.2]Most people don’t recognize their own problems
[size=1.2]But he has a preaching mouth
[size=1.2]They obviously have selfish motives
[size=1.2]But demanding generosity from others
[size=1.2]Life is like playing Super Mario
[size=1.2]When you didn’t eat mushrooms to get bigger
[size=1.2]Even a little tortoise can kill you instantly
[size=1.2]Too accommodating to others
[size=1.2]It's a chronic suicide to yourself
[size=1.2]Kindness is free
[size=1.2]But not cheap
[size=1.2]Don’t pay attention to rewards
[size=1.2]It will only be counterproductive
[size=1.2]Don't be unconditionally nice to someone
[size=1.2]I don’t want to love you anymore
[size=1.2]Because it's been a long time
[size=1.2]That person will get used to it
[size=1.2]Then of course
[size=1.2]Enthusiasm that does not receive a response should be stopped in moderation
[size=1.2]Because of this kind of dedication
[size=1.2]Often you are the only one who is moved
[size=1.2]A person who shows off his power
[size=1.2]Often have low self-esteem inside
[size=1.2]watery person
[size=1.2]There is often a lack of love in the heart
[size=1.2]Extremely glamorous person
[size=1.2]The heart is often fragile
[size=1.2]in this society
[size=1.2]truly proud
[size=1.2]It’s not about how many people you met when you were brilliant
[size=1.2]But when you are in trouble
[size=1.2]How many people still know you?
[size=1.2]Sharing happiness with the wrong person
[size=1.2]It becomes a show off
[size=1.2]Sad to share with the wrong person
[size=1.2]It becomes hypocritical
[size=1.2]even a joke
[size=1.2]Don’t let reality slap you in the face
[size=1.2]Only then do you realize how hypocritical society is
[size=1.2]Unless you let so-called friends hurt you, you will be nothing.
[size=1.2]Only then do you know that people’s hearts are fearful
[size=1.2]Never blame others for not helping you
[size=1.2]And never blame others for not caring about you
[size=1.2]live in the world
[size=1.2]We are all independent individuals
[size=1.2]You have to bear the pain and discomfort yourself
[size=1.2]No one can really understand you
[size=1.2]The stone didn't hit his feet
[size=1.2]He will never understand how painful it is
[size=1.2]Everything is done in moderation
[size=1.2]Too much kindness
[size=1.2]I just lack the heart and be too humble.
[size=1.2]becomes weak
[size=1.2]If everything is too generous and tolerant
[size=1.2]Others will not appreciate you
[size=1.2]On the contrary, it will get worse
[size=1.2]Too kind
[size=1.2]Also a kind of stupidity
[size=1.2]happiness for most people
[size=1.2]It’s all because they live a better life than the people around them
[size=1.2]The pain of most people
[size=1.2]It’s all because you see people around you who are more successful than you are.
[size=1.2]People always like to criticize good people
[size=1.2]Discuss their success
[size=1.2]It's all accidental or the result of things going bad.
[size=1.2]It seems like this is the only thing
[size=1.2]Only then can you prove that your vulgarity is not isolated
[size=1.2]and find reasons for their own failure
[size=1.2]No matter how you live
[size=1.2]There will be people making irresponsible remarks about you behind your back.
[size=1.2]Don’t argue and don’t care
[size=1.2]laugh it off
[size=1.2]In fact, it is the best contempt
[size=1.2]many encounters
[size=1.2]We all hit it off
[size=1.2]Goodbye stranger
[size=1.2]You are good to someone
[size=1.2]The other party may not remember
[size=1.2]But you treat someone badly
[size=1.2]The other party may remember it for a lifetime
[size=1.2]Don’t expect to be kind to others
[size=1.2]But don't cause any trouble
[size=1.2]person with hope
[size=1.2]Sunlight can be found everywhere
[size=1.2]ugly person inside
[size=1.2]Darkness is seen everywhere
[size=1.2]most of the time
[size=1.2]what kind of person are you
[size=1.2]This is what the world you see is like
[size=1.2]Being angry is punishing yourself for others' mistakes
[size=1.2]Anguish is torturing yourself with your own mistakes
[size=1.2]Worry is scaring yourself with unknown risks
[size=1.2]When you are in trouble you make friends, when you are proud
[size=1.2]Friends know you
[size=1.2]Great joy and great sorrow, see yourself clearly
[size=1.2]See friends clearly through ups and downs
[size=1.2]this is human nature
[size=1.2]Society cannot bear to take a closer look
[size=1.2]The human heart cannot bear careful scrutiny
[size=1.2]I suddenly understood
[size=1.2]What Lu Xun wrote in Diary of a Madman
[size=1.2]I looked it up in history
[size=1.2]This history has no time
[size=1.2]crooked on every page
[size=1.2]They all have four words written on them: benevolence, justice and morality.
[size=1.2]I can't sleep anyway
[size=1.2]Watched carefully for half the night
[size=1.2]Only then did I see the words through the cracks in the words.
[size=1.2]There are two words written all over the book: "cannibalism"!
[size=1.2]I didn’t understand the meaning of the song when I first read it.
[size=1.2]Read it again and you are already a person in the song
[size=1.2]I couldn't read Lu Xun when I was a kid
[size=1.2]Read Lu Xun again as an adult
[size=1.2]burst into tears